Monday, May 25, 2009

life.. in my point of view..

I don’t know how to say. It is not my fault things end up this way. And it is also not your fault too. Let just say, it is our fault. We are immature and we make decisions in haste, without thinking of the consequences it may gives later. And now here we are, regretting on the things that could be avoided in the first place. But no, we let our emotions take control of our mind. Seriously, matters of the heart should never meddle with the brain. It does nothing but disruption. We lose our senses, we act inappropriately, and we do everything that is wrong and avoid everything that is right. Our mind is blocked by our heart if they are ever get together. They should never be together, not in any occasion or time. They does not sync to each other. They should stay where they are.

And some people say, you can find happiness if you found love. Is it real? I mean both. The statement and love. Would you really be happy if you found love? Then, how would you explain those people who lived happily through all these years alone without any companion alongside them? Are you saying that they are just faking it? That they cry in the middle of the night for the fear of dying alone, going through their life alone with no one to share their happiness with? Seriously people, I don’t think so. They are happy with themselves. Even people who are in love can sometimes feel alone. They have other things to do with their lives than think about having a partner. And we have heard many cases of people who are madly in love still feeling all down and sad and even commit suicide (gasp!) because of love. Is that happiness? Seriously, if that is happiness, I don’t want it. I love my life. And concerning love, is it real? Some may say yes and some may say no. I think it is both. Real love may still exist in the community of lower or middle income people but in rich people, love is mostly for something else, money and materials. Could you imagine a girl of such young age could get married to a man who she should probably call him grandpa and vice versa and say it is all because of love? Seriously, I don’t believe it. Look at the old man or woman bank accounts, I bet it would have at least ten million. As for the people of the middle class, real love maybe; just maybe still exist as we are all from the same level. No hindrance from something that we call money. Although I am someone who loves money more than people, I can always say that this behaviour is bad. But, it is up to you to decide your path of life.

Another funny thing that people want us to believe when we were small is believe in your dream and go for it. Yeah right, like it is ever going to happen. We grow up with that mindset being implanted in our mind but soon as we come to age, we realised that all our dream will never come to reality. Haha.. laugh for yourself, for believing that dream will once come to reality and you will live happily ever after. Fairy tales should be demolished. They just corrupt young minds. Once grown up, we realised that our lives is controlled by the current economic condition and we work for the best offers, meaning work with the highest pay. And years and years of education in the system do nothing but vanishing out those dreams in our head and replace them with more realistic approach to life. And there are a few people who are happy with their life post-brainwash, but most ask themselves, why they end up like the way they are. Some do chase their dreams but only a few succeed and live the life they have always wanted.

Seriously, life is a big jigsaw puzzle and we are all a part of it. We just need to locate where is ur position in the puzzle and place ourselves correctly. Never try to place yourself at someone else’s spot because the only thing that you will feel is awkwardness. Think about it.